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Feb
Feb
In today’s podcast, we consider what happens to your brain in chronic unforgiveness? You will be surprised. There is hope. Status quo can kill your brain. Listen to “Forgiving Path Blog 101” on Spreaker.
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Dec
Dec
The Forgiving Path Review I recently went through The Forgiving Path. For my pathway I selected an event from 12 years ago which deeply wounded me. Although I had forgiven the one that had hurt me I realize now that I had only done that within the context of trying to be a good Christian […]
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Nov
Nov
“When I started the Forgiving Path, I was skeptical thinking that the crimes committed will not only be ignored, “whatever” and my complaint won’t be heard, “so sad, too bad! Sucks to be you!”. After all, the judge of all the earth has much “bigger things to do”. After the station 7, I was able […]
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Nov
Nov
When I went thru the Forgiving Path, I did so out of curiosity and with more of an academic mindset. I wanted to “check it out” to see if it really did work, if the FP could be an effective means to work out issues involving and understanding forgiveness. But I also wanted to understand […]
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Nov
Nov
This quote is from an excellent paper “Justice: The Foundation of a Christian Approach to Abuse” (presented by Rachael Denhollander at the 70th Annual Meeting of the Evangelical Theological Society) https://www.fathommag.com/stories/justice-the-foundation-of-a-christian-approach-to-abuse [bctt tweet=”…Forgiveness is not the foregoing of the claims of justice, but a recognition that in Christ, through the cross, the ultimate claims of […]
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Nov
Nov
Check out this animated presentation by HonorShame.com. I love it. People who have been beat-up, robbed, oppressed, treated with disrespect, prejudice or bigotry, or abuse of any kind will always feel shame too. If you can’t forgive, one of the reasons is that you struggle with subconscious shame. The HonorShame folk have come up with […]
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Nov
Nov
Check out this article by Dr. Andy Molinski. Very helpful. We have all had people badly apologize, and truth told, we’ve done worse. How does this fit in with the Forgiving Path for Christians? If I can tap into the love and compassion of the Spirit toward the person who I hurt, I am far […]
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Oct
Oct
In a 2004 study of 16 Christian models of forgiveness, which largely evolved from secular studies in the mid ‘70s, it was typical that the bulk of the responsibility to forgive fell on the hapless, weary shoulders of the victim. The same idea covers virtually every non-Christian model that I have seen, and I have […]
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Nov
Nov
Narcissists can’t forgive! OK, put this in the category of ‘No kidding!’According to a 2004 study by Julie Exline (et al) published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (Vol 87, 2004), narcissism is a “robust distinct predictor of unforgiveness”.It would seem that the narcissisist’s innate expectation of special treatment and preoccupation of defending […]